It was the end of June when Scotland was knocked out of the Euros, and my kids decided to support England instead. Despite our Irish background and historical tensions with England, they were excited to cheer for our neighbors. As a parent, it was a bit surprising to see them embrace a team that we were not traditionally inclined to support.
Growing up, we were taught not to cheer for England in football matches due to historical reasons. However, times have changed, and my kids don’t carry the same biases. They admire the English players and enjoy watching them play. While my husband is more focused on hurling and I have a soft spot for Everton, we have no ill will towards the England team or their supporters.
Reflecting on my own discomfort with English people watching sports in Ireland, I realized that it was unfair to make them feel unwelcome. I remembered the optimistic Cool Britannia period when I was studying in England, and it made me nostalgic for a more hopeful time. My kids, on the other hand, are too young to understand the complexities of Ireland’s history with England and simply enjoy the game.
When my sons announced their allegiance to England, I initially thought it was a phase. However, as England continued to win matches, their excitement grew. They even reenacted penalty shoot-outs with their friends, mimicking the English team. While some Irish households may struggle with supporting England, the English themselves are focused on their team’s performance.
Attending a session with David Baddiel, the co-lyricist of the iconic Three Lions song, I was reminded that Irish audiences are generally more accepting of English football than English history. Baddiel joked about the difference in perception and highlighted the importance of being generous towards English football.
As I watched my kids play football in the park, I realized that their support for England was harmless and I needed to let go of old grudges. They are simply enjoying the Euros and being good neighbors to our English counterparts. While they may not have an England shirt yet, their enthusiasm for the team is evident.
In the end, it’s important to appreciate the joy that football brings and to support our own teams in the future. As Ireland competes in future Euros, my boys have promised to cheer for them as well. For now, we can all enjoy the tournament together, setting aside any past animosities and embracing the spirit of sportsmanship.