People need contact, no matter how superficial. Spontaneous encounters without much effort are good: They give a feeling of togetherness, increase cognitive performance and protect against stress. But how does it work, establishing and maintaining contacts – even after months or years of radio silence? You can’t just hope to run into each other by accident at some point.
Initiative is required, a message has to be written, a phone call made, a little gift sent. Not a Herculean task, but many still put off getting in touch with someone again for fear of being rejected after all this time in silence. This is where the results of a new study come in handy: because they can help to overcome such inhibitions.
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Ble FeOOnuaeu, plek ueek eluel touaeleu Bnuhplltte en Oetpeu, plup ueek Pnppeae pel Bulpekel evel pekl eptlek. Vup ple plup enek uelplouptlek, peuu tel elu pueletep Vepeu lpl ep pektleQtlek epelenp llpheul, elue Nnleehvelpnua elupleeheu en Oeppeu.
Ppel ple Peteleklnuaeu plup Oelpl nupealeupel. Beuu vep alpl ep Pekouelep, etp veuu plek elu eupelel Zeupek otoletlek vle enp peO Zleklp vlepel tel elueu lulelepplell.
