I (37) have recently seen in an advertisement of a hipster sex shops, such as different Dildos, were presented. Most of them were huge, one of them is simply monstrous. I think Sextoys are actually something Cool, and I’m all adventurous in terms of Sex – but that bothered me. It is always talking about how women and their body under pressure. To show such a Dildos, then “be sexpositiv”. Sandro
Dear Sandro
Your experience relates to several areas of complex and sometimes emotionally charged topics. That is why it is incredibly important and, above all, that you share your observation and your Perception. With your voice you can’t allows a multi-layered discussion, and show that such a monster penis is long for all the “just a Toy”.
The question of how much accuracy you can from a sex Toy is exciting and to answer incredibly difficult. Because on the one hand, respect and care in Sex are Central themes, on the other hand, it’s also about exploring boundaries and playing with the forbidden and, perhaps, Unheard of.
men are confronted with the fact that her vulva is clearly visible. The advantage of this is that it gets society an easier space than, for example, the hidden Vagina. At the same time men, it makes the resulting comparability are also vulnerable.
Toys or penises of porn performers, who are completely above average, can trigger a lot of pressure. The most reliable antidote that you you in considering this challenge, even allow you can, is sexual competence. To your Knowledge, that good Sex is not the result of as many inches, but by the desire to use the real body, among other things.
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